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            <p>亲爱的超级无敌杜小胖：</p>
<p>你好哇。</p>
<p>现在是2018年5月21日，夏，距离你30岁还有整整5年。</p>
<p>这会儿的北京热得要命，院子里枣树上的蝉扯着嗓子不要命地吼叫着，吃完午饭跟着同事在胡同里瞎溜达了一圈，顺道买了几注彩票，回到办公室好些同事都趴在桌子上午休，流着大汗正好坐下来吹吹空调凉快凉快。</p>
<p>到北京的日子还凑不满一整年，但搬过两次家。你的父母身体都还算健康，你妈总打电话担心你一个人在北京过得不好，你爸依旧嗜烟酒如命没有人劝得动；你的小外甥女天天发视频问你什么时候回家，她生日快到了要给她送什么礼物；你的狐朋狗友们也都很好，前几天还一起吃饭畅谈人生喝得烂醉。</p>
<p>三十而立，我想你一定有了更多的烦恼吧，那时无论是来自生活还是家庭的担子都会更加有重量，你的婚姻状况，你的工作状况，父母的身体状况……所有这一切都会更加尖锐犀利，而又无法多言辩解，但希望未来的每一年，你都能平安顺遂，你也能更加自信地面对生活。</p>
<p>30岁，你在干着什么工作呢？小时候别的小朋友的理想都是当医生，当警察，当工程师，而你却只想赶紧下课回家干饭，后来调档被调剂到并不喜欢的专业干起了现在的工作，不知道你有没有努力去尝试做自己想做的事情，干一份自己喜欢的工作？但无论如何，希望那时你眼神依旧坚定，人生有规划，你走的每一步都有迹可循。</p>
<p>30岁，你成家了吗？长这么大也没正儿八经地谈过啥对象，那时要是还没结婚爸妈一定着急坏了，但那时孩子可能都能打酱油了也说不准。现在的我怕是帮不上什么忙，至少现在我觉着一个人真挺好的，你知道的，从小到大一个人，早就习惯了这样的生活，当然也许转头你就遇到那个想过一辈子的人也说不定。但无论如何，希望那时的你，没有被生活胁迫，至少用自己的方式过得很幸福。</p>
<p>30岁，你在哪里生活呢？在长春读书3年，在大连实习1年，在北京工作1年，北方显然成了你第二个故乡，从陌生到熟悉再到习惯，这儿的一切都很好，但这终究不是家的方向，而且爸妈的年纪也越来越大了，何以为家，何处为家，这是个难题。但无论如何，希望你满怀初心善始克终，无论你在哪座城市生活，踏踏实实过日子远比追求莫须有来得珍贵来得有意义。</p>
<p>啰里八嗦说了一大堆，对着空调吹着实有点冷，我先穿件衣服。</p>
<p>人生就是一盘沙，风一吹就散了，飘摇是常态，能在那个地方落脚大抵是命运使然，不要过多纠结于那些乍见之事，时间才是答案，还有啊，请你一定要努力，精神富足的前提一定是吃饱穿暖，然后还请大胆地追求自己喜欢的生活，趁着年轻多看看这个世界，不要给自己划定太多的条条框框，活得有力量一些。</p>
<p>最后，无论那个时候你以什么谋生，无论那个时候你枕边有没有人听你唠叨，无论那个时候你身在何处，只希望那个时候你没有迷茫，依然勇敢地向着幸福生活大步前进……</p>
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